“A guy sent me pictures of himself naked and wrapped in Saran Wrap from head to toe, with only his dick out, along with his boss' name and email address and his parents’ contact info. He offered to pay me $50 a week to hold the keys to his chastity device (essentially this thing that kept his dick soft and covered) and to threaten to send the pics to his work and his parents if he did not do as I said and stay locked up all week. He stood by his assertion, but added that I must use ‘better moisturizer’ than he did!!!” I asked him to confirm that he was in fact five years younger than I. His profile said he was 33 years old. When I got to meet him, he was clearly in his mid 50s. We talked for a brief moment and I asked him how old he was, and he again said 33. “I once went to meet a guy who would only provide grainy photos, which should have raised a flag. But what about the tricks that were less than magical and in fact were downright vomit-bag-friendly? I asked some studs on the scene to reveal their worst Grind-ings, Scruff-ings, and Manhunts (anonymously, of course), and here’s what they came up with. We certainly know about the good hookups that happen-we hear about them in graphic detail and eventually go to their wedding. But for some, it’s often turned into a recipe for instant horror. The glory of sex apps and sites for so many gay guys is the opportunity to score instant sex.
